Instead of Waiting for Calm Waters, I Hope You Learn to Surf

“You can’t stop the waves, but you can learn to surf.” — Jon Kabat-Zinn

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Everyone yearns for the calm waters of consistency. We can all relate to wanting things to go according to our plans and wishing for people to stay the same. When they don’t, we try to make sense of our perceived betrayal by asking emotionally…